How to Squirt: The Secret Power of Sex Squirt Toys
For a lot of women, squirting—also called female ejaculation—feels mysterious. Some aren’t sure if it’s even real; others have had it happen and want to understand why.
It turns out, there’s no mystery at all. Squirting comes from how your body responds to touch, rhythm, and relaxation. And yes, there are toys made specifically to help with that.
These sex squirt toys are designed to reach the G-spot, sometimes called the female prostate, and build up steady internal pressure until the body naturally releases. It’s less about technique and more about comfort, patience, and curiosity.
What Exactly Are Sex Squirt Toys?
Think of them as tools made for internal exploration. A squirting toy usually has a curved or bulb-shaped head that presses against the front wall of the vagina—where the G-spot sits.
When aroused, that tissue swells and becomes extra sensitive. With consistent pressure and a relaxed body, it can trigger release from the Skene’s glands, located around the urethra.
Cosmopolitan (2025) explains that most women who squirt do so through rhythmic, firm G-spot stimulation, often paired with external clitoral touch.
(Source: Cosmopolitan – Best Sex Toys for Squirting)
These toys aren’t meant to “make” something happen—they’re about discovering how your body reacts when it feels safe and tuned in.
How Do They Work?
They focus on two pleasure zones at once:
- The G-spot, for deep internal pressure
- The clitoris, for external arousal
This mix of stimulation can create blended orgasms—when both sets of nerves fire together, the result can feel fuller, more wave-like, and sometimes lead to ejaculation.
Most squirt toys share a few things in common:
- Curved tips for precise reach
- Several vibration speeds or pulse modes
- Smooth, body-safe silicone
- Quiet motors and water-resistant design
- Handles made for control and comfort
The School of Squirt (2024) notes that toys mimicking a slow “come-here” motion work best because they follow how fingers naturally move during manual G-spot play.
(Source: School of Squirt – Toys That Make Her Squirt)
The Body Science Behind It
The liquid released during squirting comes from the Skene’s glands near the urethra. It isn’t urine—it’s chemically different and more like fluid from the male prostate.
When the G-spot is massaged with even, steady motion, pelvic muscles contract, the bladder tightens slightly, and those glands release clear fluid. The trick isn’t more pressure—it’s more rhythm and relaxation.
Kinds of Toys That Can Help
1. G-Spot Vibrators
They’re curved and firm enough to press where it counts. Go for models with deep, low-frequency vibrations—those feel more like natural pulses instead of sharp buzzing.
2. Dual-Action Toys
These reach inside while stimulating the clitoris at the same time, often through suction or a small external arm. That combination tends to create fuller, blended orgasms.
3. Wand-Style Vibrators
They aren’t curved, but their strong surface vibration can build pelvic tension and heighten internal sensitivity.
4. Suction + Vibration Combos
Perfect if you like building sensations gradually. They allow you to control rhythm and depth separately.
5. Motion-Based or “Finger-Feel” Toys
Some newer devices copy the way a finger moves inside you—gentle, curling strokes instead of vibration.
Many users on Reddit (r/SexToys) say these feel the most real.
(Source: Reddit – Toys That Help You Squirt)
Tips for Using Sex Squirt Toys
Relax First
Take your time—squirting rarely happens when you’re tense. Warm up with kissing, clitoral play, or a slow massage first.
Add Water-Based Lube
A generous amount of water-based lubricant keeps everything smooth and comfortable. If your toy is made of silicone, skip silicone-based lubes.
Go Slow
Start on the lowest setting or use your hand to guide the toy slowly. Build up pressure at your own pace.
Mix Sensations
Use an external vibrator or suction toy along with your G-spot toy. Combining both types of touch helps your body sync up more easily.
Don’t Fight the Feeling
That sudden urge to pee? It’s completely normal. Keep breathing and stay relaxed—that’s often the moment right before release.
Aftercare
Drink some water, rest, or take a warm shower. For many, the release feels both physical and emotional, so gentle downtime helps.
What to Look For
- Body-safe silicone: non-porous, easy to clean
- Curved or bulb tip: targets the G-spot directly
- Quiet but powerful motor: deep vibrations, not surface buzz
- Water-resistant build: safe with warm water and easy to clean
- Multiple speeds: lets you adjust intensity as your body changes
- Comfortable handle: better grip for longer sessions
As Jissbon (2024) puts it: “It’s not about pressure—it’s about rhythm and patience.”
Cleaning and Safety
Clean every toy before and after use. Use mild soap or a gentle toy cleaner, rinse well with warm water, and let it air-dry completely.
Simple rules:
- Don’t share toys without a condom.
- Avoid alcohol wipes—they can dry out silicone.
- Store each toy in its own lint-free pouch to keep it clean.
A clean toy means safer play and longer lifespan.
The Real Takeaway
Squirting isn’t a performance—it’s just one of the many ways bodies can respond to pleasure. The right toy can guide you there, but what truly matters is feeling relaxed and connected with yourself (or your partner).
Forget the goal. Focus on curiosity, breath, and rhythm. The more you listen to your body, the more easily it opens up to you.
Explore: our collection of soft, body-safe G-spot and squirt toys made for comfort, curiosity, and confidence.
